Alessandro D’Alatri, when the anniversary gift is to break up (well)

«Anniversary: ​​we celebrate ours 26 years of marriage with a gift, we are happily there separated». In the margin of a photo of a couple, Alessandro D’Alatri thus announces the end of the long relationship with Christiane Horedt, mother of her two daughters, Carolina e Federica. An original way of communicating the terminus of a love story, but which emphasizes the importance of moving away with a smile, without hysteria.

Those hysteria that D’Alatri himself had perfectly represented in the delightful “If anything», With protagonists Fabio Volo e Stefania Rocca: «The paradox of that film? That sometimes it is better to divideHe said years ago. Sure, the situations are different, but that sentence can come in handy: understand when to stop, avoid the crash, is the best formula for non corrodere – slowly – a relationship.

Conserving it, on the other hand, means actively accept the change. “Even if our relationship is over, the link remains and we will always be a family, ”he said in the past Gwyneth Paltrow talking about the ex-husband Chris Martin. “Over time we have become very good friends, he is like a brother ». And the American actress and Coldplay frontman, married from 2003 to 2013, I’m certainly not an isolated case.

Among the world stars just think of Jennifer Lopez-Marc Anthony, Ben Affleck-Jennifer Garner, oppure Sienna Miller-Tom Sturridge and Kate Hudson-Matthew Bellamy. To take different ways without anger you can, even if it inevitably leaves some scars: “Brilliant loveIs the comment of Claudia Pandolfi to D’Alatri’s post. “You are number one,” he adds Paolo Conticini, “Great example and great esteem”.

Love in separation, then. Why keep a happy relationship, come to think of it, it is the best gift that a couple can do.

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