The actress Deborah Secco 44, said that he discovered through therapy that He was looking for a pattern in his relationships where I was looking for fill the void left by your father after divorcing his mother when he was a child.
“I looked for the pattern of the man who would abandon me, who I should fight hard to conquer, that man who, in fact, didn’t want me, didn’t choose me. My child was still abandoned”, commented the artist.
In an interview with the GNT program Saia Justa, this Wednesday (24), Deborah recalled their break-ups and said that she cannot perceive similar points between them.
In April, she announced the end of her nine-year marriage with actor Hugo Moura — with whom she had a daughter, Maria Flor, aged eight.
“I’m a person who changes a lot and I’ve experienced things that have nothing to do with the other. Different feelings, different Deborahs, different ruptures”, reflected the artist.
In the interview, she shared what she learned after dealing with breakups: “My biggest antidote is falling back in love with myself. I make a list of the best things about myself, what I need to be proud of, where I was and where I am. I wasn’t chosen many times, I was betrayed and hurt many times,” said Deborah.
According to her, the moments of suffering in her life were the ones that built her maturity and allowed her to learn from the love difficulties she faced.
“The woman I am was built on my pains, not on my joys,” said the actress.
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Remember Deborah Secco’s relationships
His first public relationship was in 1997, when he was 18 years old. She started a romance with the director Rogério Gomes, known as Papinha and the two got married. The engagement ended in 2001.
After the breakup, Deborah started dating the actor Maurício Mattar — during the recording of the soap opera “A Padroeira” –, an affair that lasted 11 months.
In 2002, the artist dated the actor Dolabella Data even living together and getting engaged. However, the couple separated after ten months.
With the singer Falcon the celebrity got engaged, but the relationship only lasted two years.
In 2007, Deborah announced a new relationship with the football player Roger Flores . They married in 2009, going through a momentary separation and a reconciliation. The couple remained together until 2013, when they announced their official separation.
After that breakup, the actress spent nine years married to the actor. Hugo Moura and had a daughter, Maria Flor, aged eight. In April 2024, they shared the news that they were no longer together.
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This content was originally published in Deborah Secco reflects on relationship endings: “I was looking for a pattern” on the CNN Brasil website.
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