Elodie’s monologue: “I don’t want to be defended, I want to be understood”

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“I don’t have to and can’t explain anything to anyone. We must never feel guilty. We do not have to protect men because men are not our children and when they make mistakes it is right that they pay“. Thus began the monologue that Elodie he proposed to the first episode of Hyenas, who chose her as the host for an incandescent debut in which the singer proved to have the right timing as well as a certain dose of “cazzimma” that we had already had the opportunity to appreciate in the past, as well as in the cover interview that Vanity Fair he dedicated it two weeks ago. “It pisses me off to see a girl who can’t say no or is ashamed to do so like it’s too late to go back. I am free to change my mind until the end and say “I don’t like it anymore”, or “I’m sleepy, I’m tired. Get out of the way ”. Or to kick yourself in the balls rather than stay silent “ Elodie explained.

“When I was a cubist, my body was the color and image of the place. Honestly, I had a great time. But a single gesture or a single glance was enough to make me feel wrong. Many years have passed and not that much has changed. They tell me: “Elodie but you do the dance half naked”. So? Bodies are beautiful, but between admiring a body and possessing it in the middle there is consent and desire, which is fundamental. Have you ever wondered what a woman desires? ». “It has happened to all of them to be told: ‘Oh well, you don’t have to tell your man everything.’ Because? What do I have to hide? What do I have to protect him from? What are you afraid of? Of my past? Of my experiences that are the same as yours? To really know me? Many men have this fear and want to dominate, control and defend us as if we were their property. I don’t want to be defended, I want to be understood. I don’t want to be judged, I want to be heard. Because what I am is worth. It took me so many years to be who I am and I’m proud of myself “said the singer, closing with a warning.

“Whenever we have accepted that someone has chosen for us, we have ended up acting as mothers to our companions and we spend our lives in some way, perhaps trying to save someone else. It has happened to me so many times and I don’t even know why I do it, maybe because I feel important and have a value in this life. Actually in those moments, when you decide to give everything to another person, it is precisely the moment in which you cancel, you annihilate yourself and lose the beauty of dedicating your time to yourself and your life. Let’s not do it, we must never disappear “.

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