Ema Stokholma tells the difficult childhood: “Mom did not send me to school when the bruises were seen”

Presenter, writer, painter, Ema stokholma He often returns to talk about his painful childhood, who today has left behind, but which is impossible to forget. The fault of a mother who beat her and a often absent father.

The first bad memory dates back to when he was 4 years old, when for the first time he was beaten in the car, but there are also beautiful ones, especially those related to school and his companions: «It was great to go there and live a normal life in the midst of them. In the canteen we ate all together and I remember that I always finished their dishes: I was very hungry, “said the presenter to Corriere della Sera. At home, however, he refused the food that his mother prepared for her: “Maybe I refused everything that came from her, I’m still trying to understand it. Even now I happen to let myself go to this form of appetite, “he revealed. At the time he never thought of telling his suffering to an adult: “I take my responsibilities, but I was too afraid of returning home after a possible complaint. Then, she did not send me to school when the bruises were seen. And in any case it is not that I had some positive reference models, among adults: even my father told me “See you on Monday”, and then reappeared after four years … ».

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Today that bond is labile, “every now and then he sends me a message,” said Ema Stockolma referring to his mother, who when he was 9 years old tried to convince her to throw herself in the river, to Romans-sur-Isère, where they lived. He saved her a bookseller, Stéphane, who never saw again.

The link with his brother Gwendal, who shared the most difficult years and who was the first to read the chapters of the book remained strongly strongly. For my good, With which in 2021 Ema Stockolma won the Bancarella Prize: «Without his consent I would never have published it. The proceeds divide them equally between us, because it is my story, but also his », the words of the presenter, who today is serene and happy with her life, surrounded by friends and important affections.

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Among the well -known names, there are Andrea Delogu: «It was the first to ask me, for example, of my mom, and when I told them what he did to me, he wanted to know where, when, everything”, and Luca Barbarossa, with whom he works on the program Social clubon Radio 2. It is also thanks to them and many others who are never “down of morality” and who has realized the dream of having a Friends style family. The classic advertising, however, has never been a goal: “I didn’t grow up with the myth of the Mulino Bianco family, this is perhaps one of the few things I thank my mother.”