The December 21, on the occasion of winter solstice, is celebrated all over the world World Orgasm Day for Peace on Earth, conceived in 2006 by two American activists, Paul Reffell and Donna Sheehan. The message is very clear: “Make love, to make peace!”, with the aim of creating a state of widespread pleasure and well-being, of changing the energy in the Earth, introducing the maximum possible quantity of a positive type.
So if it is true that sex rhymes with peace, how can we rekindle the flame of passion in couples, especially in these months of lockdown and curfew? And above all, does anyone who is single mean that they must give up making their contribution on this very special day?
“Absolutely not, on the contrary!” He exclaims Gaia, founder of e-commerce The Key of Gaia, where he sells sex toys and more, and the face of Gaia on Top, his website where he reviews and teaches how to use sex toys in the correct way, without taboos.
«For everyone, single and not only, there are sex toys, which can allow for solo pleasure, but also revive couple relationships. More and more women are interested and buy sex toys, but I realized that not all of them know how to use them best, how to get the most out of them, how to have fun as a couple and everything that follows.
Because sex toys are good for the couple but not only? «There are many types of sex toys. Let’s say that in general, they are tools that help us to know ourselves better, to explore pleasure, where only with the hand we may feel blocked. In addition, for example, the vibrator has the advantage of spraying the genitals with blood, so even if the libido is a bit low, a rabbit can help us to raise it.
In the couple, inserting a vibrator into the sexual dynamic is only good: the partner who uses a dildo to give pleasure to the partner is usually more cautious, more listening to what she wants, compared to when using his hands or mouth. And then you can tease, urge … they are called sex toys because they presuppose the game at the base of everything ».
Did the lockdown help awaken the passion? “The big surprise of this lockdown is that happy couples still exist. So many! – he comments Elisa sevino, owner of Lovever, the concept store dedicated to love born almost 10 years ago in Turin – They lived through a strange period, some took the opportunity to spend more time together, others had to gain an intimacy in crowded homes … But if I saw a trend in the lockdown it was the desire to meet and rediscover oneself.
For the night of the 21st I would focus on a sex toys. The most requested these days is thevibrating egg remotely operated with an app on the mobile phone: also perfect for all couples who are forced to live far away ».
“But even singles give it up: a rabbit or a sucker they can do for you, for an unforgettable night! », adds Gaia.
Here then we asked Gaia to illustrate us well how to use the main sex toys correctly: the information can be found below, while in the gallery a wide selection of the best on the market right now.
Vibrator or rabbit
«This is an experience to do at least once in a lifetime and I recommend starting with the classic vibrator and then trying the other sex toys. There are simple vibrators and those with the external petal: in the case of the latter, the central trunk must be inserted into the vagina, while the petal can be placed on it to stimulate the clitoris or even on the perineum (the anatomical space between pubis and anus, ed) , rich in nerve endings. Some also use it in the anus. However, the rabbit can also be used to intensify male pleasure: have you ever used it to massage the shaft of the penis or testicles? “
Vibrating clitoral sucker
«This is a sex toy used on the outside of the clitoris. He leans on him and lets him do his, abandoning himself to pleasure. I recommend starting from the vibration with the lowest intensity, as it can be a really “trying” experience, which can lead to overstimulation. There are those who use it, also placing it on the mount of Venus or on the lips ».
Kegel balls
«These are a medical device recognized in many countries (not in Italy), but they are also used as sex toys. They are inserted into the vagina and must be kept inside for 15-20 minutes: having a certain weight, tending downwards, the fact of contracting the pelvic floor muscles helps to strengthen them considerably. Furthermore, if you work these involuntary muscles, the pleasure signal is activated and they also become a sexual stimulus. I always recommend consulting a specialist to use them, however.
The Chinese balls, on the other hand, without wire, are pure sex toys, usually made of glass or steel. They always fit in the vagina and can be kept inside even during penetration, to increase pleasure. They can be removed safely and without problems, without the risk of them being dispersed ».
Ovetti wireless
«These are perfect for couple pleasure, even from a distance. She can insert the egg in the vagina, with the external part that goes to lean on the clitoris and he can remotely control it via the app. More than for the functionality of the sex toys, what excites is the fact that the pleasure is in total control of the partner, who, when least expected, activates it. The egg can also be worn during sexual intercourse, keeping it inserted even during penetration, to increase the sensations for both him and her ».
Plug anali
«For those who practice or want to start practicing anal sex, anal plugs are the first step to then leave room for penetration. He inserts them into the anus, to allow for dilation. Or to amplify the pleasure, while one is also vaginally penetrated ».
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