‘I only date men who go with prostitutes’ – 22-year-old stripper explains how she chooses her partners

Everyone has their own standards when choosing their partners. Some choose their partners based on having a secure job, others based on how they behave or down to earth. The only thing that is certain is that “It’s the simple things. The main thing that someone should have in order to go out with him, is that he meets your basic needs. Your wishes. You start there” commented the 22-year-old stripper Kate Iselin in nypost.

She admits that her own standards are not that much demanding but it is quite “For me, any potential boyfriend or girlfriend should be open to vegan food. It doesn’t have to be vegan, but I don’t want them to go “sour” every time I put some in vegan slice in the shopping cart” he said. Plus, to date her “he/she has to like going to Ikea and be willing to accept that I’ll be the one to assemble the furniture when we get it home,” she added.

Another criterion is that they love the animals because “my mother always told me never to trust anyone who doesn’t love animals” she said.

All this does not sound too much to start a relationship. However, she also added something that is not so… usual. To go on a date with her you must have visited one in the past sex worker.

“I know that, for many people, visiting a prostitute is something they don’t want. Knowing that your relationship has made a few visits to a strip club is enough to break up some relationships before they even start.”

But as she explains, sex workers – like herself – are talented, creative and reimgful people who offer intimacy, sex and fun to those who want it.

“The sex workers they provide a shoulder to cry on for those who need someone to confide in and bring entertainment and joy to anyone who wants to celebrate” he said and continued

“We are warm and open minded people who spend time with people from all walks of life and we know how to make them feel comfortable and special in some of their most vulnerable moments. People should respect our work as an integral part of society, because that’s exactly what it is.

She admits that “as a sex worker, I rarely hear that when I tell someone partner for my job”. “I have been told things that I could not repeat here. “Some people on dating chats ask me if I’m sad or exploited, etc,” noted Kate.

However, she said, the majority of her ex-partners supported her work, but accepted her with a caveat: “although they are comfortable with me being a sex worker, they would never want to visit themselves a sex worker, because somehow they don’t see themselves as fitting the stereotype of what our clients might look like or find satisfaction in the cheap and chic rooms they imagine us working in.’

“There is nothing wrong or bad about being his employee sex and there’s nothing wrong or bad about visiting one,” the 22-year-old emphasized.

According to the sex worker, the best relationships she had were with people who had experience of the job but from the client’s side: someone who visited an escort, someone who is not afraid to plan a night in a strip club, or someone who, at the very least, has the decency to pay for the porn he watches.

While the world of work I describe may still seem foreign to a partner, it at least has some frame of reference for what I would bring to work: conversations in the girls’ room don’t seem so foreign, nights out become more understandable, and they can finally to accept that even the friendliest customers are no threat to a committed relationship.

After visiting a sex worker themselves they can understand that a sexual service is not equivalent to illegal relationship, I believe that any romantic partner who has visited such a place sees the work me just as it is: a job.

“From now on, before I start a relationship, I’m going to ask my partner if he’s dated a colleague and I hope the answer is yes…” Kate concluded.