“I was the absolute s**@@, I made other people’s lives hell” – Confession and how he’s trying to make amends today

Cally Stewart made a 180 degree turn from “absolute sk@@@”, as she describes herself, it happened almost a spiritual guide who advises women how to respect each other. The 35-year-old woman describes in detail the bullying that did to classmates and colleagues until she got married and became a mother and thus realized the problem she had.

For nearly 20 years, Stewart terrorized women in her path by making inappropriate comments about their clothing, weight and abilities. “I was the absolute sc@@@. I was awful and I had the illusion that I was very strong,” she describes speaking to the South West News Service, as relayed by New York Post.

“I was laughing at other girls’ clothes and I commented for example that “she is too fat to wear something like that”he remembers.

As she says, it all started when other bullies at school made fun of her for her appearance. “I realized that if I wasn’t afraid they had no power over me and so I became a thug, I bullied anyone in front of me. I was awful and made the lives of students and teachers hell” he confesses.

He soon acquired her “shit” reputation and even got to the point of being expelled from school for her behavior but even that wasn’t enough to stop her.

“I remember someone telling me once that life was going to be hard for me if I didn’t change my behavior,” she says, but the fullness of time had not yet arrived for Stewart.

When she started working in coffee shops and offices, female colleagues became her target. “I was saying they slept with some man to get there and other awful things about their clothing” says.

Her friends weren’t spared from this malice either with Cally spreading various rumors about them behind their backs.

Despite her… to say the least unacceptable behavior, Stewart married and had two children. “My husband thought I was crazy.” she admits and reveals that it was motherhood that finally led her to recognize her problematic behavior.

“I was 30 years old and I realized that I had accomplished so much but still felt worthless. Then I knew I had to change» he emphasizes.

With the support of her husband, Stewart entered a mental exercise program to deal with her tendency to lash out at other people, especially other women.

The program, as it says, tit helped her become a kinder person and guided her on how to create friendships with other women based on mutual respect.

So when kindness overflowed in her, she started her own company called ‘Curiously Her’, which helps other women overcome their deeply held beliefs and transform spiritually.

“I think most people who are hurt continue to hurt others because it’s a way of dealing with the trauma. We need to help people who are suffering,” explains Stewart.

“Today I look at my actions and I believe they are unacceptable,” he confesses. “Now I have many more female friends and acquaintances than I did before.”

“Someone wrote to me on Facebook: ‘You made life [μου] hell but now I can see how different you are,’” concludes Cally Stewart, feeling grateful that she was able to change herself and is now helping other women do the same.