Marriage at first sight, it also ended between Solange and Michele: “Love was not enough”

It was the only pair of the ninth edition of Marriage at first sight to resist the experiment but, unfortunately, the last in order of time to explode. When we saw them grappling with cuddles and living together we were, in fact, convinced that Solange Salvo and Michele D’Addetta would have gone far. Not only because, when we interviewed them, they told us they wanted to savor all the beauty their relationship was offering them, but also because it was more or less clear to everyone that things were taking the right turn for them. Instead something, as often happens when the cameras go off and reality comes into play, has broken. Michele communicated the end of the story and, consequently, of the wedding in a long post on Instagram. “Yes, we’re not here anymore. God if we loved each other, so much that we forgot everything, how complicated what we were experiencing was, how dangerous the risks we were taking were. We did everything just with the intention of trying to live it to the fullest,” wrote D’Addetta.

«I’ve always thought that love alone wasn’t enough, and in fact I wasn’t wrong. In the end life puts us in front of choices, reopens old wounds, brings back old burdens. Then he throws it all into a big blender which he keeps spinning until the vortex gets too heavy. As soon as we stopped we realized we were too wounded, too distrustful of each other, too tired to keep fighting. And this is how from true, irrepressible, enveloping love it has become selfish, unsustainable. We both have faults, responsibilities, we both could have done something more, or done it better. But maybe it’s not even the case to talk about faults», continued Michele, who in Marriage at first sight demonstrated strong protection towards Solange. «We are simply two profoundly different, incompatible people, with needs and traumas that are too similar to match. who fell in love and tried until the end to fit together. In an attempt not to get lost we tried, in the name of love we did so much good and so much harm. Well, just for the same love, we decided to get lost in order to stop wearing ourselves out, to stop being each other’s victims, or to stop thinking we are, so as not to hate each other.We have chosen to let ourselves go to a brighter, less dangerous, more conciliatory future with the life we ​​would like. We will get up again, and we will smile at life again ».

«I don’t know where this life will take us, but actually I have hope. I hope that one day, more fulfilled, more satisfied, more serene, more at peace with ourselves and with the world, we’ll have a laugh about this whole affair while sipping some prosecco Extra dry. Because as much as we have not been able, I’m sure I’ve loved you from the first moment, and whatever happens, you are and always will be my wife.’ Shortly after, it was Solange who made her voice heard, again on Instagram, who had kept her participation a secret. Marriage at first sight to his parents until, in the final stages, he chose to free himself from the burden and introduce Michele. «We gave ourselves everything that was in our ability at this moment in our life journey. It was not enough for the couple, but it served our individual individualities». “A lot of things have changed for both of them in the last year, and it’s only right that life now goes on different paths. Mine now is made up of boxes to empty, new homes to look for and jobs to find. I thank all those people who are showing me closeness and understanding despite my silence. Finally, it was Michele once again to close the circle with a new post. «Giving love, this is the thing that makes me feel good, that makes my life better, that brings out the best version of me. Because, whatever one can say, the truth remains only one, love moves the world. After meeting her, she became my world, and priorities changed and I wished with all my heart that she was my arrival.”.

“My wife was the perfect person to make this happen. The experts were right: a sunny and sweet person, capable with a simple laugh of making a day that started badly beautiful, an extremely sensitive person, with a great need to receive love and to learn how to give it, a person who manages to find a fantastic world in small things and manages to transfer this beauty to anyone close to her. I loved madly, and the love doesn’t end, guys. You don’t stop loving someone like that overnight. I will continue to love her again, for a long, long time, and with her all the things she has managed to teach me. But life will change, the projects that until recently seemed definitive will have to be questioned again. I will have to reorganize my life, trying to find things that make me feel good, and I will succeed, because this is one of the great teachings that this great love has left me». Heart in hand, we can only wish Michele and Solange the best for their future, certain that the experts of Marriage at first sight right now they’re throwing their hands in their hair for failing where they thought they succeeded.