Pamela Anderson: “The only time I really fell in love”

While theirs was undoubtedly a stormy relationship, Pamela Anderson is the first to admit that the ex-husband Tommy Lee it was the great love of her life.

At the end of the month, the star of Baywatch will publish a new memoir, titled Love, Pamela and a documentary by Netflix, Pamela, a love story, in which he will speak openly of the many phases of his life and of the men who have been part of it. In an excerpt from the book, obtained exclusively from People, Pamela Anderson writes: «My story with Tommy was perhaps the only time I was really in love». The couple married in 1995 on a Cancun beach wearing a bikini and board shorts, respectively. Though the good times could get hectic, she added: “We had fun and our rule was no rules». The animal rights activist confessed: “We just wanted to have babies and be together forever.” The couple later had two children, Brandonnow 26 years old, e dylan25.

Then when their filimini was stolen from a safe in the garage and turned into a “sex tapes” which was sold and distributed, their relationship underwent a new one pressure and to a new level of public scrutiny. “It has ruined lives, starting with our relationship, and it is unforgivable that people, even today, think they can profit from such a terrible experience, let alone a crime,” writes the actress, specifying that she does not have ever watched the stolen video. From then on, she did stress he outgrew their marriage and the woman revealed that one night in 1998 Lee twisted her arm while holding her son Dylan, who was then seven months old: «Tommy snatched Brandon off me and slammed me and Dylan against a wall,” he said. She called 911 in a panic. Tommy was arrested and served six months in prison and so », she said, « ours began hell».

Pamela filed for separation shortly after. She explains: “The divorce at Tommy’s it was the hardest, lowest moment, harder of my life. Was destroyed. I still couldn’t believe the person I loved the most was capable of doing what happened that night. We were both devastatedbut I had to protect mine children». But now, more than twenty years later, the star of Playboy says, “Tommy is the father of my children and always will be grateful»adding that even if their two children are now adults, they continue to “feel from time to time”.

The actress was then married four more times, once with Kid Rocktwo with Rick Solomon (although one of the two marriages was cancelled) and more recently with Dan Hayhurst, although the marriage ended in 2021 after less than a year together. Today is single and lives with her five dogs on her grandparents’ former farm on Vancouver Island, but writes, “I live a more romantic life now that I’m alone than I did during my relationships. I’m sure it would be nice if there was someone else in my life who wanted the same thing, but I’ve never met them. Usually it’s about pleasing them, and there has to be a balance,” concluded Anderson. “I don’t need someone to bring me roses. I just planted a hundred rose bushes. I can have them whenever I want and they are my favorite roses.’