Who said the best sex for a straight couple is where he penetrates her? With an eye to the sex-themed trends of 2022, the brand di sex toys LELO has turned the spotlight on a kind of hot practice that, it seems, is more and more widespread. It is called pegging and involves the woman penetrating the man anally using a strap-on, typically a combination of a harness and a dildo. It can also be done with a dildo without a harness, or with a portable vibrator or prostate massager. We asked the expert for some clarification on pegging.
Sexual Pegging Practice, What Happens When She Penetrates Him
As the psychologist Biancamaria Fracas, specializing in sexual counseling and with a studio in Desenzano del Garda, «although it may seem a form of modern and uninhibited sexuality, in reality pegging was born in Ancient Greece. In those days, in fact, there was a notable production of olisboi, phallic belts that today are defined as strap-ons. In more recent years, in 1998, the sexologist Carol Queen was one of the first to speak openly about this issue in one of the world’s best-selling sex education videos. Very widespread on a pornographic level, this practice is still little studied from the point of view of specific research and statistics when practiced within heterosexual couples. The reason is simple: social, religious and cultural taboos come into playi, hence the veil of mystery. However, it is clear from the erotic e-commerce site MySecreteCase that the strap-on is one of the most purchased sexy toys by Italian consumers and not within homosexual couples, but heterosexuals. So it is easy to deduce that several people are regaining the kind of mental freedom necessary to live uncensored sexuality, giving free rein to their fantasies. What matters, and not just in pegging, is that the practice is wanted by both partners. A condition not to achieve pleasure and, above all, to safeguard psychological well-being ».
Pegging causes pleasure in the woman that starts from the head, while the man can experience very intense orgasms.
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Since there is a lack of research on the practice of couple pegging, Dr. Fracas points to the importance of excluding psychological profiles constructed at the table. “I don’t think that the women involved in this practice are, as one might imply, envious of the penis or that they necessarily want to affirm their relational dominance. It is a time when sex is being done and acted upon by both of you: domination and submission are fake and decided together by the couple in that moment, in that context. Furthermore female pleasure in this case is decidedly more mental than physical and it derives from the fact that the woman feels invested with a responsibility, in which it is she who decides when and how, since she wears a strap on. Many women love to see their partner writhe in pleasure, because the enjoyment given by anal stimulation for some exponents of the male sex is much more intense than that of the penis. As for the man who wants the woman to penetrate him, he must not be thought of as being less virile or with homosexual tendencies. Perhaps not everyone knows that the anus has a lot of nerve endings, which if stimulated adequately give an intense pleasure. Not only that: near the prostate there is also the point L, a very sensitive erogenous zone which can give deep and different orgasms compared to those achieved with penis stimulation. Therefore men who manage to overcome the taboo of anal penetration see pegging as something very pleasant that combines strong physical sensations with mental aspects. The pleasure, in fact, also comes from the strong excitement of feeling dominated by the partner and by to feel free of that responsibility typical of the classic penetrative act, in which the man must somehow pay attention to his erection in order to experience and give pleasure. In pegging, in agreement with the partner, the man can be totally selfish, letting himself go to the sensations ». Want to give pegging a chance? It seems that 2022 is the right year to do so.
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