The “my wife” page, the nurse of the complaint: “I appeared on Facebook the photo of a woman’s breast and I discovered everything”

“I look at that photo appearing on my Facebook page and I wonder:” What is this stuff? “. It had been posted by an anonymous. It was the breast of that woman in the foreground, it was evident that those who published it was looking for comments of a certain type, which in fact were there. The usual corollary of vulgarity. I intrigued myself and thought: I really want to understand what they do, these ». From here started the research of Federica, 35 years old Tuscany, who is a nurse. It was she who was suspicious and find out what happened in the Facebook group “My wife”.

On Facebook he noticed The breast photo of a woman with the question: “What do you think?” It was one of the photos posted by husbands on the group, now closed, in which they commented images of the wife made and published without their knowledge.

Al Corriere della Sera He told his experience. «Let’s clarify one thing, please. At the center it must have the problem, not me. I am not looking for visibility. I did what I did for personal civic consciousness. It was a small gesture and honestly I would never have expected to become an international question. But that’s okay, I’m glad I have made my contribution ».

It was not recorded. «It was a page open to everyone, it could be scrolled without registering and so I did. I discovered what we are talking about in these days and they boasted about. After seeing some photos I said to myself: “Oh well, there are theft of images inside, there are crimes“. And I decided to write to Facebook».

He was not reflected, but “I told my friends to report it too, so I discovered that a friend had already reported it and Facebook had replied: there was no violation of their guidelines, they said”. So he tried with the Postal policebut also here no feedback. «I decided to turn to the writer Carolina Capria that I follow via Instagram and who has many followers. I wrote them to tell them: help me too to report this page. She did it and the day after the case she literally exploded ».

It was the first time he made a report. “I didn’t expect all this reaction. Also because usually on these topics it is difficult to break through the wall of homertà. We tend to diminish everything, to pass the theory that is only an innocent game, as I read that some of the men discovered by their wives say. But the game has nothing to do with it. And no moralism has to do with it. Each is free to do what she wants but if a man meals the world’s world’s world’s world without asking for permission has a problem with the concept of consensus, and it seems to me that it is not a trivial problem. This is the aspect that matters most in this story ».