TikToker’s advice on how to achieve swinging – “It’s ok to want more in your bed”

“It’s okay to want more from your relationship and in bed.” This is the motto of a 29 year old mother who has become a star in TikTok and is considered an ambassador of the exchange of partners between couples (the so-called swinging). A mom who sleeps with other couples while her children are at school has created a website.

The 29-year-old, known as Vista Wife, says she has sex with other couples while her children are asleep and now she helps others to make their sex life more spicy.

The swinging ambassador used the profits from her OnlyFans page to fund her new consulting service.

He told the Daily Star: “It is suitable for couples and singles who are thinking of engaging in this way of life. It is full of information that goes through your mind when you think of having more variety in the bedroom. “Many of the articles cover the do’s and don’ts of doing things when you start swinging and also how to handle emotions and even approach the issue with your partner.”

And what is her basic advice? “Never do it to fix your marriage, it just won’t work. You need to be in a stable relationship. If one of you does not deal with it 100%, it will not work there and jealousy will enter there “.

The journey with her husband, from childhood love partner to partner exchanges

Last month, Vista Wife and her 30-year-old husband spoke to the British website Daily Star about their journey from teenage lovers to passionate swing supporters. They met when they were 16 and 17 years old respectively before giving birth to their first child a little later.

The couple had been married for 10 years, but three years ago the husband suggested swinging. They were both open to the idea and have been embracing the way of life ever since.

They said: “The message we really want to express is that it is okay to always want more. It is not a shame to want more in the bedroom “.

But they did not take her lifestyle change very well. Vista Wife explained: “My best friend, whom I have known since I was five, decided to stop talking to me. It was very difficult for me to get over it. “I was ready for nasty comments from strangers on the internet, but not that.”

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