William and Harry, more and more different (the latest live events confirm this)

«You will be king one day, I won’t. So I can do whatever I want ». It was the summer of 1988 when the little one Harry, at the time a child of only ones four years, he hurled himself against his elder brother, William, guilty of having teased him during a car trip from London to Highgrove. A seemingly innocent sentence, instinctively shouted, but which already hid a fair degree of awareness.

That difference of roles, in fact, slowly took off dismissed the principles, putting them on different paths. The incredible bond adolescence, who had formed to support each other later the tragic death of Lady D, it has torn apart over the years. It’s been 33 since that fight in the car and today – William and Harry – they look like more different than ever, in the lives they lead and in their attitudes.

“It’s the fault of the dynamics of the Palace, that have always favored the eldest sonIs the biographer’s accusation Robert Lacey in the book Battle of Brothers. “Differentiated education is a serious threat the relationship between brothers“. Or rather, it shapes different personalities, precisely to adapt them to the tasks they will perform in the future, as is also evident in the case of Carlo, Anna, Andrea ed Edoardo.

In short, according to reports of many experts, Harry would have suffered from the “Spare wheel syndrome”, alternating military engagement with absurd stunts, in front of which the patient Queen Elizabeth he often turned a blind eye. Meanwhile William has continued along his protected path, learning to speak in public weighing every word, to control oneself without ever going above the lines.

And it is no coincidence, therefore, that they are lovers of two women practically at the antipodes: Kate Middleton, elegance and self-control, the prototype of the perfect queen consort, e Meghan Markle, more outgoing and passionate, the ideal person to get away from the strict diktats of London. Two companions to lead with different lives, in fact, giving more space to some traits of one’s personality.

Harry and William, therefore, have never been distant as now, and the behavior on stage during the last live appearances I am the confirmation of this. “The professional sobriety shown by Prince William during the Earthshot Awards is an authentic lesson of royal behaviorSaid Judi James, a body language expert. “He wanted to draw attention to the project, do not attract her on himself”.

“Harry’s attitude was very different, three weeks ago, on the occasion of the Global Citizen LiveAdded Judi speaking with Femail. “The Duke of Sussex was greeted in Central Park by a flood of crowds, rockstar guy. And he showed a celebrity approach, even if some gestures on stage betrayed a little bit of nervousness, just like William. ‘ That every now and then the two brothers think of a rapprochement?

Each remaining himself, of course. Why the diversity, even in the family, it is to all intents and purposes a value.

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