First menstruation: the mother is the number one contact person

Do I have a headache and continuous dizziness? I ask Google What could it be. Do I have severe pain in my spleen? Let’s go and consult the Net right away. It’s normal: lots of information, right away, at your fingertips. But in some cases we are still inclined to seek an explanation from those we know best: this is the case of teenagers under 17 than to inquire about first menstruation do not hesitate to seek the mum. This was revealed by a recent investigation carried out by Intimina: well 86% of the girls interviewed she runs to her mother to ask for support and explanations before or after her first menstrual period.

«Obviously this is a subject that is felt to be intimate and personal and therefore the reference is a person whom one can trust. In many cases, the mother is that reference, ”he explains Roberta Rossisexologist and psychotherapist – which is for girls The person who has shared or shares the same experience “.

First menstruation? Doctor Google rejected

The poll asked 1000 girls between the ages of 12 and 17 to tell about their experiences with menstruation. L’86% she says she has been trained on the subject directly from mothers and a minority from teachers and friends (36%). The percentage of how many talk about it is reduced with sisters or brothers (12%) and it is still surprising that Internet it is considered helpful only in 15% girls. Tail light the doctor (7%) and their own fathers (6%) to address the topic.

The sense of shame persists in the company of friends (53%), at school (65%) and even at home (25%). Only 1 in 10 (11%) say they never feel embarrassed during menstruation.

The audio guide to better address the discussion

After the success of the Handbook of gorgeous girls launched a year ago, the audio version it can be listened to for free on the Intimina website to welcome all young girls who will soon (or recently) have to manage their menstrual cycle.

The listenable version of the new audiobook of the Handbook of gorgeous girls contains 5 stories of young women who tell their experiences and their psycho-physical changes. It is an interesting learning experience on managing this physical and hormonal change, full of medical information and practical advice to avoid unpleasant situations.

Each described situation has been designed to provide conversation starters for parents and children at this delicate stage in every young woman’s life.

Dos and don’ts to talk about menstruation correctly

«Coming to wrong conclusions is very easy, especially when the answers are made from deductions or from stories handed down. It is essential to educate women and especially adolescent “little women” to make a conscious choice for a better management of the menstrual cycle “, comments Dr. Rossi, also suggesting some tricks to better manage the conversation about the first menstruation.

You can find them by scrolling through the images below.

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Source: Vanity Fair

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